There have been the occasions when I've told my children that they can't do some requested activity because I'm not ready...that my decision isn't a reflection of their capabilities...it's me who needs a minute. It bought me time...not limitless time, but time to make Peace, to release the resistance and embrace their growth...sometimes to facilitate a little more of my own or theirs...most often, both.
So year end reflections come with anticipation of new Life, new seasons...and I release resistance (again).